Imagine living without the worry about money. Imagine life with out the fear of losing your job or having to wonder how you are going to make ends meet.
No it's not a trick question; REALLY can you imagine living without worry and fear about money or shame about your debt.
I know, I know. I can just imagine you saying , "Sounds great, as soon as you tell me the winning lottery numbers I'll know and I'll get back to you."
Honestly, can you imagine life without fear, worry, doubt or shame about money?
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Are you sick of staying awake at night worrying about money?
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Thursday, July 21, 2011
The Cup of Forgiveness
Hello,
Does your family drive you crazy? Erma Bombeck once joked that insanity is hereditary-you get it from your kids. Maybe your parents are being the problem, payback for your time as a teenager. Sometimes it seems like the Creator had some big idea to make sure we are born to the wrong family just so we can have an adventure discovering who our true family is.
In my practice most of the pain that people have to recover from is the pain caused by our families. It's been a big part of my journey to heal from a painful childhood and the pain I had inflicted on my own daughter. Our families should be the safest place on earth, on every level and yet for so many the opposite is true. Having said that; I need to share something with you.
I don't know if you have heard, but this year we lost two people in our family. My maternal grandmother this summer at age 92 after a long bout with cancer and in the fall my nephew age 16 of suicide. Now my step brother is battling cancer that has spread to all the cells and we don't know how much longer we'll have him with us.
Our family is tight knit. We share the same sense of humor, work ethics, and values and we each have own little quirks and peeves. Good people who from time to time made some bad choices. We shared the attitude that life was about learning and to not to allow ourselves to be held back by a mistake, but to accept the consequences and to try to be better people because of it. Like a lot of families, over the years judgments, resentments and grudges crept in. As day to day life took over and we didn't get together as much to reconnect and get things cleared up.
My 16 year old nephew's sudden death was the sonic boom of all wake-up calls. I was holding my sobbing niece and heard myself whisper into her ear "Now you're going to know what families are for." And it was true. I was never so proud to be part of this family because personally and collectively we chose the path of Love.
When we tell people about this experience, we say that Love took over and led us through.
The morning we were to go make arrangements at the funeral home I woke up to a voice saying" Drink the Cup of Forgiveness before you come together to mourn." I saw my family doing a ceremony to commit to forgiveness of each other, ourselves and even my nephew so that our hearts were pure and open to one another so that we could be full support to one another with nothing between us but LOVE.
I told my family about it and they immediately agreed. It was SOMETHING we could DO when we felt so powerless.
That same night we came together. Because it was me that had gotten the message my family let me take over on what was to be said at the ceremony. We lit candles set out glasses and a bottle of wine. I began by reading a poem called "Childhood Friends" by Rumi that had a line “I brought you a mirror. Look at yourself and remember me.” To remind us we live in each other’s hearts and when we look at ourselves we see each other. When we are loving each other we love ourselves. When we hurt ourselves we hurt each other.
I said “If you want see Sean and tell him love him, just look in the mirror, that’s where he is.”, then passed a mirror and we each looked in the mirror and said “I love you.”
Let me explain something, I keep saying "I" but it wasn't me. It was too wise and loving. It was LOVE.
In the Christian tradition it is taught that before coming together for the Lord's Supper or Communion it is also called, we are to go to anyone we may have a problem with and ask forgiveness so that we can share communion with and open heart and a clear conscious. Our ability to receive forgiveness is in direct proportion to our ability to forgiven. Notice I didn't say how much God would or could forgive but your capacity to receive that forgiveness.
We are also taught that unless we love the brother we could see how could we love a God we can't see? I'm sure other religions teach this idea too; this is just the form I am familiar with.
A friend once shared a Sufi prayer with me “I fully and freely forgive you for anything you have done to me in the past, are doing to me know or may do to me in the future and I ask that you fully and forgive me for what I have done to you in the past, am doing to you now and may do to you in the future. I release you pray you release me, let there only be love between us.
I talked about these concepts to my family and then said as we drink this cup of forgiveness, let it be our agreement and commitment to forgive one another, to let there only be love between us.
There's so much more to tell about everything surrounding my nephew’s death. Too much to tell in an email; but let me say this: It healed my family. It healed me.
We were able to be full support for one another and for all of our friends. We have also been able to receive the help we need from family and friends. I know my friends have been wonderful to me during this time.
My mother asked that we drink the Cup of Forgiveness at my Grandmother's memorial which was also our family reunion in October. I got to share this little talk with over 50 relatives and they all went for it. I will never forget the sight of those 50 people shifting consciousness and watch the light of love start to shine in that room. What a gift! I am set for the next 20 Christmases.
People are encouraging me to writing more about Sean and everything that happened because it has transformed us all. My family wants to share what we learned and experienced during this tragedy, we also know this story is still unfolding.
I invite you to consider creating your own ceremony of forgiveness. Maybe you can't do it with family …yet. You can start with your friends who make up your current tribe of support. Even if you have to do it alone in front of a mirror, maybe that's the best place to start.
Make room in your life for the good things by clearing out those old resentments and grudges.
Kathryn Perry
PS It's been 5 years since I first wrote this article and in those 5 years we have kept the tradition of the Cup of Forgiveness in my family affirming at every family gathering "Let there only be love between us". Different family members have shared this same story and ceremony with others grieving a loss
and the response is the same as what we experienced. Healing,love and peace.
Does your family drive you crazy? Erma Bombeck once joked that insanity is hereditary-you get it from your kids. Maybe your parents are being the problem, payback for your time as a teenager. Sometimes it seems like the Creator had some big idea to make sure we are born to the wrong family just so we can have an adventure discovering who our true family is.
In my practice most of the pain that people have to recover from is the pain caused by our families. It's been a big part of my journey to heal from a painful childhood and the pain I had inflicted on my own daughter. Our families should be the safest place on earth, on every level and yet for so many the opposite is true. Having said that; I need to share something with you.
I don't know if you have heard, but this year we lost two people in our family. My maternal grandmother this summer at age 92 after a long bout with cancer and in the fall my nephew age 16 of suicide. Now my step brother is battling cancer that has spread to all the cells and we don't know how much longer we'll have him with us.
Our family is tight knit. We share the same sense of humor, work ethics, and values and we each have own little quirks and peeves. Good people who from time to time made some bad choices. We shared the attitude that life was about learning and to not to allow ourselves to be held back by a mistake, but to accept the consequences and to try to be better people because of it. Like a lot of families, over the years judgments, resentments and grudges crept in. As day to day life took over and we didn't get together as much to reconnect and get things cleared up.
My 16 year old nephew's sudden death was the sonic boom of all wake-up calls. I was holding my sobbing niece and heard myself whisper into her ear "Now you're going to know what families are for." And it was true. I was never so proud to be part of this family because personally and collectively we chose the path of Love.
When we tell people about this experience, we say that Love took over and led us through.
The morning we were to go make arrangements at the funeral home I woke up to a voice saying" Drink the Cup of Forgiveness before you come together to mourn." I saw my family doing a ceremony to commit to forgiveness of each other, ourselves and even my nephew so that our hearts were pure and open to one another so that we could be full support to one another with nothing between us but LOVE.
I told my family about it and they immediately agreed. It was SOMETHING we could DO when we felt so powerless.
That same night we came together. Because it was me that had gotten the message my family let me take over on what was to be said at the ceremony. We lit candles set out glasses and a bottle of wine. I began by reading a poem called "Childhood Friends" by Rumi that had a line “I brought you a mirror. Look at yourself and remember me.” To remind us we live in each other’s hearts and when we look at ourselves we see each other. When we are loving each other we love ourselves. When we hurt ourselves we hurt each other.
I said “If you want see Sean and tell him love him, just look in the mirror, that’s where he is.”, then passed a mirror and we each looked in the mirror and said “I love you.”
Let me explain something, I keep saying "I" but it wasn't me. It was too wise and loving. It was LOVE.
In the Christian tradition it is taught that before coming together for the Lord's Supper or Communion it is also called, we are to go to anyone we may have a problem with and ask forgiveness so that we can share communion with and open heart and a clear conscious. Our ability to receive forgiveness is in direct proportion to our ability to forgiven. Notice I didn't say how much God would or could forgive but your capacity to receive that forgiveness.
We are also taught that unless we love the brother we could see how could we love a God we can't see? I'm sure other religions teach this idea too; this is just the form I am familiar with.
A friend once shared a Sufi prayer with me “I fully and freely forgive you for anything you have done to me in the past, are doing to me know or may do to me in the future and I ask that you fully and forgive me for what I have done to you in the past, am doing to you now and may do to you in the future. I release you pray you release me, let there only be love between us.
I talked about these concepts to my family and then said as we drink this cup of forgiveness, let it be our agreement and commitment to forgive one another, to let there only be love between us.
There's so much more to tell about everything surrounding my nephew’s death. Too much to tell in an email; but let me say this: It healed my family. It healed me.
We were able to be full support for one another and for all of our friends. We have also been able to receive the help we need from family and friends. I know my friends have been wonderful to me during this time.
My mother asked that we drink the Cup of Forgiveness at my Grandmother's memorial which was also our family reunion in October. I got to share this little talk with over 50 relatives and they all went for it. I will never forget the sight of those 50 people shifting consciousness and watch the light of love start to shine in that room. What a gift! I am set for the next 20 Christmases.
People are encouraging me to writing more about Sean and everything that happened because it has transformed us all. My family wants to share what we learned and experienced during this tragedy, we also know this story is still unfolding.
I invite you to consider creating your own ceremony of forgiveness. Maybe you can't do it with family …yet. You can start with your friends who make up your current tribe of support. Even if you have to do it alone in front of a mirror, maybe that's the best place to start.
Make room in your life for the good things by clearing out those old resentments and grudges.
Kathryn Perry
PS It's been 5 years since I first wrote this article and in those 5 years we have kept the tradition of the Cup of Forgiveness in my family affirming at every family gathering "Let there only be love between us". Different family members have shared this same story and ceremony with others grieving a loss
and the response is the same as what we experienced. Healing,love and peace.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
It Starts with you...
In the July 6th call titled "It starts with you..."
I read 10 questions from Tad Hargrave's workshop Radical Business Intensive
http://marketingforhippies.com/
True or False
1. I'm clear on my personal strengths and weaknesses.
2. I am adrenaline free.
3. I am addiction free.
4. I am a model for other entrepreneurs.
5. I take excellent care of my health.
6. I don't "do" stress. Nothing's worth that.
7. I have plenty of personal funds.
8. I'm proud of myself just as I am. I don't have
anything to prove and I don't push myself too hard.
I know it's out of integrity to do so.
9. I have something better to do after work each day than work.
10. I am putting aside plenty of funds with which to become
Financially free.
Once you do the One Command for each of those go back and check what changed.
Here's the quote I gave you at the end of the call
“It is foolish to postpone enjoyment of your ordinary life until you are more successful, more secure, or more loved than you are today”
Timothy Ray Miller
Big Hugs
Kathryn Perry
I read 10 questions from Tad Hargrave's workshop Radical Business Intensive
http://marketingforhippies.com/
True or False
1. I'm clear on my personal strengths and weaknesses.
2. I am adrenaline free.
3. I am addiction free.
4. I am a model for other entrepreneurs.
5. I take excellent care of my health.
6. I don't "do" stress. Nothing's worth that.
7. I have plenty of personal funds.
8. I'm proud of myself just as I am. I don't have
anything to prove and I don't push myself too hard.
I know it's out of integrity to do so.
9. I have something better to do after work each day than work.
10. I am putting aside plenty of funds with which to become
Financially free.
Once you do the One Command for each of those go back and check what changed.
Here's the quote I gave you at the end of the call
“It is foolish to postpone enjoyment of your ordinary life until you are more successful, more secure, or more loved than you are today”
Timothy Ray Miller
Big Hugs
Kathryn Perry
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Commanding Clarity - Free Call
Are you Stuck? Need Clarity? This Call is for You!
Hello
I’m writing today because over the last few weeks I have been noticing a particular theme
in the conversations with business associates, friends, clients and One Command customers.
“My emotions have been so up and down”
“My business (or income) is way down and I can’t make myself do more”
“The things that used to work aren’t working anymore.”
“I’ve been commanding-praying-visualizing but nothing is happening.”
“ I feel like there’s a break through coming but I feel like I’ve lost my way.”
The main feelings people describe are defeat, anxiousness, worry and general lack of clarity.
Does any of this sound familiar?
I know what you are going through -I have been there,
it’s like the information is locked in your brain but it can’t get out or worse you
know what needs to be done but can’t get focused and wind up doing a million other things.
It’s so frustrating! And to make matters worse - it keeps you from earning income, which creates
even more panic and confusion.
It’s time to take action NOW to stop this vicious cycle that is keeping you confused, broke and afraid.
There are some tricky mindsets that will sabotage your success, and there are simple actionable steps
you can take right away to turn it all around. Add in The One Command and you activate incredible
stores of genius and resources you only dreamed possible.
I’ve been getting a lot of emails and phone calls about this topic and while I am happy to help, the
truth is not everyone can afford the private coaching to move past this issue. Which is why I am
offering a special call and I don’t want to wait to get this information out.
In this call I will be sharing a simple method I use with The One Command to calm your
nerves, re-align to your purpose, create clarity and channel that energy into action.
You will also learn
Why you are going through this – again!
How to uncover the hidden belief that is stopping you
What the stages of creativity are and what steps you must take at each level
What blocks can arise at each level and how to clear them
How to tap into your greater capacity to transform it all
What may be the most surprising and under used asset you have!
Commanding Clarity with The One Command
This Call is FREE to listen via webcast until
July 15th.
Click here to access the call now
http://instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=16138110
Hello
I’m writing today because over the last few weeks I have been noticing a particular theme
in the conversations with business associates, friends, clients and One Command customers.
“My emotions have been so up and down”
“My business (or income) is way down and I can’t make myself do more”
“The things that used to work aren’t working anymore.”
“I’ve been commanding-praying-visualizing but nothing is happening.”
“ I feel like there’s a break through coming but I feel like I’ve lost my way.”
The main feelings people describe are defeat, anxiousness, worry and general lack of clarity.
Does any of this sound familiar?
I know what you are going through -I have been there,
it’s like the information is locked in your brain but it can’t get out or worse you
know what needs to be done but can’t get focused and wind up doing a million other things.
It’s so frustrating! And to make matters worse - it keeps you from earning income, which creates
even more panic and confusion.
It’s time to take action NOW to stop this vicious cycle that is keeping you confused, broke and afraid.
There are some tricky mindsets that will sabotage your success, and there are simple actionable steps
you can take right away to turn it all around. Add in The One Command and you activate incredible
stores of genius and resources you only dreamed possible.
I’ve been getting a lot of emails and phone calls about this topic and while I am happy to help, the
truth is not everyone can afford the private coaching to move past this issue. Which is why I am
offering a special call and I don’t want to wait to get this information out.
In this call I will be sharing a simple method I use with The One Command to calm your
nerves, re-align to your purpose, create clarity and channel that energy into action.
You will also learn
Why you are going through this – again!
How to uncover the hidden belief that is stopping you
What the stages of creativity are and what steps you must take at each level
What blocks can arise at each level and how to clear them
How to tap into your greater capacity to transform it all
What may be the most surprising and under used asset you have!
Commanding Clarity with The One Command
This Call is FREE to listen via webcast until
July 15th.
Click here to access the call now
http://instantteleseminar.com/?eventid=16138110
Thursday, June 30, 2011
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
The One Command Practitioner Certification Course
The One Command community is growing worldwide and you have the opportunity to be at the ground floor of a career with unlimited earning potential.
There is a powerful secret that once uncovered changes everything within you - changes your ability to solve problems, reduce and eliminate stress, improve joy and confidence, restore health, and even make changes within your DNA itself. This secret of the One Command® is so profound that those applying the simple process are getting results that some call miraculous: unexpected money showing up, reversal of devastating financial loss, restoration of love in relationships, and turning health hardships, into health vibrancy to mention
a few.
You know that everyone who has really prospered or reached an exceptional level of success has one thing in common, they have broken the bondage of their limitations. And that is what makes successful people so indestructible - no matter what happens to them or around them they still land on top.
The One Command® Practitioner Certification Program has been developed so you can apply this secret power that is yours - a system of change that quickly and easily improves the quality of your life in a completely new way of living - one you have often hoped to have that lands you on top.
You see you don't have to go anywhere to realize your hopes, wishes, dreams and desires - you only have to become aware of your power - the power of change that is designed right in your biology and your DNA. You have an amazing brain and physical body that is your vessel for change. Change that can propel you into success - that can destruct your limitations - even under hardships such as what we are facing in the world right now - and it can be yours by learning what Asara Lovejoy discovered and shares in her best selling book, The One Command - that there is a power within you so great that
is yours!
The One Command Practitioner Certification Course
August 19, 20, 21
Location:
ICU Center, Inc.
2840 NW Boca Raton Blvd., Suite 106
Boca Raton,FL 33431
To Register
Contact Sandy Collins for details
icucenter@yahoo.com
(561)594-5097
Kathryn Perry, Instructor
The One Command Practitioners Certification Level I
The One Command and The Six Structures of Belief
The purpose of The One Command® Practitioner Level I - Six Structures of Belief is to become competent in your ability to make quality changes in your life through the application of the 6-Steps to Theta and The One Command® and to take others through the same process to make quality changes in theirs.
As you take this certification, you reconfigure your brain, your mind, and your emotions to operate in the embodiment of your greatness and the greatness that resides right within you and your clients. This attitude begins to permeate every aspect of your life - until you simply live it on a daily basis.
There are many layers of beliefs and ideas to discover within the 9 billion neurons in your brain and the way you create and actualize your life. The One Command® Practitioner Certification Level I is a system that engages the power of your mind, the Quantum field of The One Command®, and the Six-Structures of Belief that tap into every dimension of who you are, at the same time you enhance the best and most integrated changes possible for a new way of living.
In this 3-Day course you discover that there are portions of your brain you can access for beneficial results in health and wellness, as well as, increased emotional and financial fulfillment. It may seem hard to believe, but the results are in from those who have learned this simple, yet powerful process with fantastic results.
The One Command® stops negative fears, thoughts and debilitating ideas in a moment, and restructures the neuron firing sequences of your brain, mind and intelligence into your desired results. The process becomes "Your act of Creation" in consciously designing your present now and future as you release blocks and stuck thoughts from your past. The results are quite amazing!
YOU LEARN:
- The ONE COMMAND® that stops limitation and attracts more success, health, wealth and happiness in a moment
- Six-steps to the theta state
- To operate in theta - that greater capacity within you
- The Syntax of The One Command® - why it works
- The Quantum Field of The One Command®
- Brain Waves and their function in healing
- Six Structures of Belief - the congruence test for change in all dimensions
- Activation of Your DNA Blueprint for success
- To operate as the observer
- The One Command® effect in physical healing
- Your Etheric DNA Blueprint for optimum health
- How to connect to your vital energy field of health
- Remove beliefs that keep you and your clients separated from your good in the world
- Elements of a session
- To guide another through the process
- Practice Sessions
- Integration of change
- Establish support and community in your practice
- and much much much more.....
The purpose of The One Command® Practitioner level I - Six Structures of Belief is to become competent in your ability to make quality changes in your life through the application of the 6-Steps to Theta and The One Command® and to take others through the same process to make quality changes in theirs.
As you take this certification, you reconfigure your brain, your mind, and your emotions to operate in the embodiment of your greatness and the greatness that resides right within you and your clients. This attitude begins to permeate every aspect of your life - until you simply live it on a daily basis.
We invite you to join us on the next great adventure of your life by attendance in
The One Command® Practitioner Certification program.
Register Now!
August 19,20,21
Boca Raton, FL
To Register
Contact Sandy Collins for details
icucenter@yahoo.com
(561)594-5097
About your Instructor, Kathryn Perry,
CEO Commanding Wealth Seminars
In her 20+ years experience training in transformational therapies such as Hypnosis, NLP, Reiki, EFT and too many other trainings to mention; there are many success stories from those that have benefited in an instant from their time with Kathryn. She is a co-developer of TOC programs with Asara Lovejoy offering private consultations and seminars to help clients clear their unconscious programs so they can live in alignment with their soul's purpose. It is Kathryn's unique ability to see the solution within the problem, along with her years of training, warmth, humor and compassion that has made her a successful, teacher, presenter, mentor and counselor.
Want to bring a One Command Program to your
corner of the world?
Contact Kathryn Perry at kathryn@commandingwealth.com
to find out how.
To Register
Contact Sandy Collins for details
icucenter@yahoo.com
(561)594-5097
Kathryn Perry
Commanding Wealth Seminars
kathryn@commandingwealth.com
817-881-0618 text or cell
Friday, May 13, 2011
Know Thyself - Know Your Spiritual DNA
Our most recent discussions on the One Command Yahoo group have been truly deep and self-revealing, the willingness of the members to open their life experiences to others and share their recognition of how much self-awareness enhances their ability to change your lives for the better has been a blessing.
Many times people ask what to Command for...and the best answer will always be, What do you want instead (of what you have). To help that along, it can be very useful to find out what programs you have been running that have gotten in your way.
We know from quantum physics and psychology that biochemically, biologically and energetically, we take in information that is transmitted as chemicals throughout our body and then creates or changes our DNA. We come in with ancestral programs, we take on cultural and family programs and we have inherent behavioral DNA programs - all information that shapes how we think, perceive the world, and behave.
And beneath all of that is our Spiritual blueprint, the programs that we universally share that come from Source. These are the programs that hold our integrity, our compassion, our sense of fairness, our love - and nowhere in that blueprint will you find fear.
Fear is incorporated in your core behaviors, like the flight/fight responses, and in your learned behaviors like family beliefs and cultural beliefs, and in your personal set of perceptual behaviors that shape how you interpret the world and how you react in response to those perceptions.
The very best part is that as you dig into what is going on in your life, from your dreams to your beliefs to your daydreams, and as you allow yourself to be aware of all the ways you have viewed the world and how and why you make the choices you have made, you have even more freedom and more information about What you want instead.
All of your stories of self-discovery are you gifts to yourself, your gifts of self-recognition, your gifts of self-revelation - and at that point - you get to make more and more and more decisions and choices to use your inherent courage to behave from Source, from your Spiritual DNA blueprint - the you that is in complete alignment with Greater Capacity.
Congratulations to all of you and to all of us - self-knowledge is FREEDOM!
Many times people ask what to Command for...and the best answer will always be, What do you want instead (of what you have). To help that along, it can be very useful to find out what programs you have been running that have gotten in your way.
We know from quantum physics and psychology that biochemically, biologically and energetically, we take in information that is transmitted as chemicals throughout our body and then creates or changes our DNA. We come in with ancestral programs, we take on cultural and family programs and we have inherent behavioral DNA programs - all information that shapes how we think, perceive the world, and behave.
And beneath all of that is our Spiritual blueprint, the programs that we universally share that come from Source. These are the programs that hold our integrity, our compassion, our sense of fairness, our love - and nowhere in that blueprint will you find fear.
Fear is incorporated in your core behaviors, like the flight/fight responses, and in your learned behaviors like family beliefs and cultural beliefs, and in your personal set of perceptual behaviors that shape how you interpret the world and how you react in response to those perceptions.
The very best part is that as you dig into what is going on in your life, from your dreams to your beliefs to your daydreams, and as you allow yourself to be aware of all the ways you have viewed the world and how and why you make the choices you have made, you have even more freedom and more information about What you want instead.
All of your stories of self-discovery are you gifts to yourself, your gifts of self-recognition, your gifts of self-revelation - and at that point - you get to make more and more and more decisions and choices to use your inherent courage to behave from Source, from your Spiritual DNA blueprint - the you that is in complete alignment with Greater Capacity.
Congratulations to all of you and to all of us - self-knowledge is FREEDOM!
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